Showing posts with label Obsessions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Obsessions. Show all posts

Monday, July 10

Obsessions {vol. 2}

I am hoarding Harry Potter tattoo ideas on Pinterest. Don't you dare judge me. 😂

I found this recipe for chocolate mug cake on Pinterest a while back and I've been making it obsessively since! Except that, most of the time, I just eat the batter... ðŸ˜‚

Thursday, May 18

Obsessions {vol. 1}

My forever inspiration 💖
Hey friends! I stopped doing "Obsessions" posts last year, but I felt like it was time to bring them back. I got good feedback from people saying that they liked these posts, and hey, I like them too or I wouldn't be doing them! I've got a busy day ahead of me, but let's start out the day with some coffee, productivity, and positivity! Here's what I've been obsessed with lately:


I've been wanting to get back into cross-stitch & needlepoint, so I'm so glad these are becoming "popular" again! I used to sew all the time when I was a kid, but it definitely wasn't "cool" back then. I mostly just need to get supplies - and you can get so many fun patterns on Etsy now!

Sunday, January 26

12 Books in 12 Months (12x12)


As I'm sure you remember from my 2014 resolutions, I really want to read at least 12 books this year. With work, law school and life, I hardly read at all last year and I'm pretty sure I only read one new book. So, for this new year, I really wanted to change that.

Reading has always been a huge part of my life. When I was little, I would stay up late reading almost every night. I was completely obsessed with the Animorphs series. It's actually what J and I first bonded over when we were 7, haha. Whenever I was feeling down, I would pull a book from my bookshelf and read. It always seemed to put things in perspective for me; even if I was mad at my mom for something, I would read about someone who had far greater problems than me. My anger would dissipate and I would leave my room feeling so much better than when I entered it.

I also have a "bad" habit of re-reading books instead of reading new ones. I get attached to stories and characters, and when I know how a book makes me feel, it's a lot easier to pull it off the shelf when I need it. For example, Anne of Green Gables is one of my favorite books of all time. I've re-read the book at least 10 times, probably more. I literally miss Anne when I haven't read the book in a while, like a childhood friend I haven't seen recently. I re-bought the book in London when I missed her.

Anyway, because of this habit, I don't tend to read new books. But how am I going to make new literary friends if I don't read new books? So for my 12 books in 12 months, I chose only books that I haven't read (or finished - I kind of cheated with a few of them).

Without further adieu, here are my 12 books! (Mind you, these are in no particular order)


Game of Thrones: The Song of Ice & Fire - George R. R. Martin
I started reading this book in 2012, and I'm still not done. I got about a fourth of the way through it before I stopped reading. Maybe it was because J and I were moving, maybe it was because I started watching "GIRLS." I don't know. Whatever the reason, I have just about a third of the book left and I am absolutely obsessed. A third of this book will still take me a while, but since I'm deep into it right now, this is the first book I'm going to read this year. Hopefully I'll start making time for this instead of Netflix this weekend and next week!

Study Smart, Study Less - Anne Crossman
This is a pretty small book, so I'm hoping I can finish it in a day. I'm also hoping to finish this one pretty early on so I can use some of the tips for law school!

Women Food & God - Geneen Roth
It's no secret that I've struggled with weight issues and self-love, so when my mom bought me this book, I was definitely excited to read it. But as all books that come around Christmas in my life, it got shoved onto the back burner. It seems like it's kind of a hippie way of looking at spirituality and food, but that's totally my jam, haha.

God and Boobs: Balancing Faith & Sexuality - Angie Schuller Wyatt
This was also a Christmas present that got forgotten on my book shelf. My college roommates and I had long discussions about how the Christian faith views sexuality (or, more often then not, tries to avoid sexuality). I'm really excited to see how this book addresses it. I have no idea if I'm going to be swayed either way, but I'm trying to keep an open mind to what this book has to offer, because I have a feeling it's going to be incredibly thought-provoking!

Breaking Through the Stained Glass Ceiling: Women Religious Leaders in Their Own Words - Marueen E. Fiedler
This is a book of interviews by Fiedler on interfaith issues, gender equality, and women church leaders. I've kind of been obsessed with it since the moment I got it, and it discusses my main topics of interest in scholastic Christianity! If you couldn't tell, there are a lot of religious books in my 12, mainly because they're the ones I haven't read. I'm really interested in seeing how my faith changes this year because of them.

Catherine The Great: Portrait of a Woman - Robert K. Massie
I'm a history nut, but mostly about Tudor England... But I think I might be a changed woman after this book. It's about (surprise) Catherine the Great, who was a German princess who became the Empress of Russia. Just from the inside cover, I'm pretty sure I'm going to fall in love with her swiftly and entirely!

Letters to a Young Poet - Rainer Maria Rilke
My mom sent me this book while I was in London and thinking about becoming a writer. I'll admit, I've read parts of it, but never a substantial chunk, let alone the entire thing. It's actually really short - only 68 pages - so this will definitely be one of the shortest reads. I feel like this is a classic though, and fully deserving of the time it'll take to understand the flowery language!

Dating Jesus: A Story of Fundamentalism, Feminism, & The American Girl - Susan Campbell
I've already read parts of this book as well. I started several years ago and got to the point of her childhood baptism in elementary school, so clearly I didn't get very far! I really love how Campbell writes and her witty sense of humor! It's almost Catlin Moran-ic, haha.

Sex With Kings: Five Hundred Years of Adultery, Power, Rivalry, & Revenge - Eleanor Herman
I've read several chapters of this book, but never finished it. It's amazing though! It's basically about all the famous mistresses throughout history - what they were like, how long they were mistresses, and why they were loved by their respective kings/presidents/etc. It's kind of crazy to think how much these women changed the world from their beds. Not that I think women today should be doing that (I'm fully capable of changing the world from my desk, thank you very much), but it's a really interesting, captivating read!

Bossypants - Tina Fey
I don't know how I haven't read this yet. I'm embarrassed. Getting on this train ASAP.

Good Girls, Bad Girls: The Enduring Lessons of Twelve Women of the Old Testament - T.J. Wray
As you could probably tell from the title, this book looks in-depth at 12 biblical women. We assume a lot of characters in the Bible were "whores or virgins," but this book looks deeper into their stories. I got this a few years ago but never read it! Whoops!

Grimm's Fairy Tales
I'm 2/3 of the way through this, but haven't read it in the past year. I started reading it my senior year of college and stopped some time after J and I moved into our apartment in Coralville. You understand nothing of fairy tales until you read these. Like, you think Sleeping Beauty got woken up with a kiss? Technically. The prince raped her unconscious body first. Personally, I think it was wise for Disney to gloss over that part. They're a lot darker and a lot more full of death than the ones we remember from our childhood, but these are the real deal! I'm actually super excited to keep reading these. Even though I've read a lot of the book, it's small type and over 500 pages, so that last third will definitely take a while!

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Phew, that was a lot! My plan for this project is to post when I've finished a book, along with my thoughts on the book, how I liked it, what I learned, etc. Hopefully the first post will be soon, but I can't make any promises. Law school's pretty demanding, haha. I hope to read a lot over any breaks that I have, like when I go to Hilton Head over UNH's "winter break," which is in late February. And of course, my goal is to read these 12 - it doesn't mean than I can't read more than that! :)

Have you read any of these books? What books are you reading right now that you'd recommend?

Tuesday, February 12

11 Reasons I Love HBO's "Girls"




I have the second disc of Girls, Season 1, on my bookshelf, impatiently awaiting Kelsey Johnston to come over tonight and watch Lena Dunham get naked on my T.V.

You have no idea how excited I am for this.

I am a "Girls" novice, truth be told. I've only seen the first disc of the first season so far, though I'm somewhat up to date with a few episodes in the next season; but really, all I know is that Hannah tries cocaine and that Patrick Wilson is a love interest. Not too much of a spoiler.

In preparation for tonight, here are the 11 reasons I'm pretty sure I love this show:


1) Lena Dunham / Hannah Horvath. 
Not a big surprise here if you know me at all. I love the way she talks. I love that she doesn't have a "typical Hollywood/New York body" (AKA she has lumps and it's so awesome). I love that she gets naked in pretty much every episode. I love that she is not ashamed of doing this. I love how beautiful she is.

2) People are pissed that Lena / Hannah gets naked in pretty much every episode.
Seriously, people are apparently upset about this. Probably the same people who spat venom at (my) Hannah for being a "fat apologist" for suggesting that it's ok to have stretch marks and lumps and curves and stuff. This NY Post critic was all like, "EW GIANT THIGHS why doesn't the skinny BEAUTIFUL girl in the show get to be naked HUH?" I was all like, "Wow, NY Post critic, you are terrible."

3) Marnie has real feelings.
SPOILER UNLESS YOU'VE SEEN THE FIRST EPISODE. Marnie has this great boyfriend who loves her and who she's been with for like, four years. Sure, he's clingy, but everyone's like, "Marnie, he's perfect so what if he loves you too much," and Marnie's like, "SPACE PLS."

We constantly see romantic comedies where the perfect girl finally finds the perfect guy and they are sooo happy together. Well, what about four (or twenty) years down the line when you're sick of them? Real feelings.

4) Shoshana is a virgin and is kind of a freak about it.
I feel like the only time we hear or read about the "virgin" is when people are waiting until marriage to have sex and apparently everyone needs to know. Shoshana is completely wigged out that she's still a virgin. She doesn't want to be, but (as far as I've seen right now) the only time she's gotten close, the guy's all like, "No pls."

I guess that is a virgin stereotype. I don't care if you're a virgin or not. I literally do not even think about the touched/untouched state of your vagina. I am busy watching Girls.



5) People are pissed Lena / Hannah was in an episode with Patrick Wilson.
I'm like, "Wow, you people need more time to do more things." Apparently we don't live in a world where someone who looks like Patrick Wilson would want to do things with someone who looks like Lena Dunham, thereby perpetuating the stereotype that societal-accepted beauties are only attracted to people who also stunningly beautiful in societal-approved ways. It's not like Patrick Wilson could like someone with THICK THIGHS EW.

I mean, what? Maybe people are attracted to different things. Maybe what turns him on is "thick" thighs and a booty and that's perhaps his business and not anyone else's.

Lena Dunham looks kinda like me (and I'm thinking probably a lot of other women in this world), so when you're all like, "EW NO," you're calling probably 90% of the world's women fat cows who don't deserve attractive partners. Stew on that.

Also, I apparently need to apologize to my smokin'-hot boyfriend; I don't deserve to be with him cause I've got a lumpy butt. SO SAYS THE WORLD.

6) As a priviledged, early-twenties white girl, I can relate.
Sad, but true. Nothing has spoken to me in such a way since "Mean Girls." All the girls in the show have "first-world problems," and it turns out, I do too. I'm not trying to be pittied or petted for having such a tough life, but it's nice to see an honest take at our somewhat mundane problems (like weight, stupid relationships, viotile friendships, our own selfishness, etc).

7) Hannah "dates" a douchebag.
Adam treats her like crap most of the time, has degrading sex with her, and never calls her back. He sends her dick-pics meant for someone else. Hannah forgives him because he kisses her and has sex with her (degrading or not). She literally ignores all the bad stuff for inexplicable reasons. Many of us have made such mistakes before in our lives. I feel like I'm yelling at her half the time to stay away from him, and yet she never listens to me.

8) I keep wondering who Jessa is going to have spontaneous, possibly unprotected sex with next.
I think we all know people who do unwise things of this nature. We love them, of course. Jessa is a fascinating character because I'm pretty sure that she knows she's doing dumb things, but she cares more about her image (being spontaneous and "cool") and having a new, exciting story to tell than she does about making smart decisions.

I don't know, maybe she's right. Maybe we should all be more spontaneous.

9) I can't watch this show without thinking about MY girl friends.

10) It's not about "chasing a diamond."
Lena's words. Bask in them.



11) It's called "Girls," but they are, arguably, women.
When do girls become women? I'm not really sure. I still usually call a group of women, "guys." I don't know if that's normal.

Are young women today in a perpetual state of arrested development? Perhaps. Maybe our whole generation is. Maybe being so dependent on our parents keeps us in a girl-like state. Maybe the desire to be "grown-up" without any of the responsibilities makes us girls. Maybe the idea that we're not "grown-up" until we get married makes us girls because we're so dumb.

I still don't really feel grown-up, even though I'm mostly taking care of myself. My parents help me out all the time (Thank yoooou!), but I pay my own rent and 99% of the time pay for stuff on my own. Does that make me a woman?


Seriously, if you're at all interested in anything I've been talking about in this post, go on Netflix stat and rent Girls. It's not a perfect show. It's not an ideal show. It's messy and it's raw and it's real, but that's also why it's so good.


Have you seen Girls? Will you start watching it now? What's your favorite episode? Which character do you identify with most?

Love you all,
M
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